| I just knew that I often wondered why grownups hurried off to workIt did not seem like much fun, and they never looked that happy, but something kept them hurrying off to work
Realizing we had absorbed as much as possible of what he was talking about, rich dad said, "I want you boys to avoid that trapThat is really what I want to teach youNot just to be rich, because being rich does not solve the problem
"It doesn't?" I asked, surprisedLet me finish the other emotion, which is desireSome call it greed, but I prefer desireIt is perfectly normal to desire something better, prettier, more fun or excitingSo people also work for money because of desireThey desire money for the joy they tiffany jewellery think it can buyBut the joy that money brings is often short lived, and they soon need more money for more joy, more pleasure, more comfort, more securitySo they keep working, thinking money will soothe their souls that is troubled by fear and desireBut money cannot do that
"Even rich people?" Mike asked
"Rich people included," said rich dad"In fact, the reason many rich people are rich is not because of desire but because of fearThey actually think that money can eliminate that fear of not having money, of being poor, so they amass tons of it only tofind out the fear gets worseThey now fear losing itI have friends who keep working even though they have plentyI know people who have omega speedmaster watches millions who are more afraid now than when they were poorThey're terrified of losing all their moneyThe fears that drove them to get rich got worseThat weak and needy part of their soul is actually screaming louderThey don't want to lose the big houses, the cars, the high life that money has bought themThey worry about what their friends would say if they lost all their moneyMany are emotionally desperate and neurotic, although they look rich and have more money
"So is a poor man happier?" I asked
"No, I don't think so," replied rich dad"The avoidance of money is just as psychotic as being attached to money
As if on cue, the town derelict went past our table, stopping by the large replica cartier watches rubbish can and rummaging around in itThe three of us watched him with great interest, when before we probably would have just ignored him
Rich dad pulled a dollar out of his wallet and gestured to the older manSeeing the money, the derelict came over immediately, took the bill, thanked rich dad profusely and hurried off ecstatic with his good fortune
"He's not much different from most of my employees," said rich dad"I've met so many people who say, `Oh, I'm not interested in money' Yet they'll work at a job for eight hours a dayThat's a denial of truthIf they weren't interested in money, then why are they working? That kind of thinking is probably more psychotic than a person who cheap tiffany's jewelry hoards money
As I sat there listening to my rich dad, my mind was flashing back to the countless times my own dad said, "I'm not interested in money He said those words oftenHe also covered himself by always saying, "I work because I love my job
"So what do we do?" I asked"Not work for money until all traces of fear and greed are gone?"
"No, that would be a waste of time," said rich dad"Emotions are what make us humanThe word `emotion' stands for energy in motionBe truthful about your emotions, and use your mind and emotions in your favor, not against yourself
"Don't worry about what I just saidIt will make more sense in years to comejust be an observer, not a reactor, to your chanel messenger bags emotio |
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